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Author:  J [ Tue Sep 23, 2003 1:50 pm ]
Post subject:  How do you know ..
if a guy is gay. :shock:

I know it's a weird question, but i'm serieus, how do you know. Without just asking him of course.

Thing is, i got a friend, well not really a close friend just someone i occasionally have a drink with, and he's kinda stalking me. always calling when i wonna go to the movie, if i wonna have a drink blabla .. and i don't mind occasionally, but he really doesn't stop. Untill today i was about 70% sure that he was gay, now i'm about 99% sure. So i think he's just interested in me. He already met my gf (that made the % go from 40 to 70 :P ) btw.

Bla basicly i just needed to get this from my chest. man the guy is obsessed. can't blame him of course, falling for my good looks :)

The guy is actually (kinda) okay, if he would just not call so much. He does this with other people as well btw.

Bla so my question: any pointers on how to handle this situation? he hasn't come out of the closet, and i'm not going to pull him out. think i just ignore his calls, pick up if i want to.

anyone has a friend or so that's gay or might be gay or has a crush on him/her ... ?

help
Author:  derf [ Tue Sep 23, 2003 1:51 pm ]
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Well, the only way you can really tell is if its obvious. If its not then hes not, if he is, then he is. No point making a big deal of it.
Author:  J [ Tue Sep 23, 2003 1:56 pm ]
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Yeah well, it depends what you would call obvious.

I talked to him an hour ago on msn (after not answering 2 of his phone calls, but i really missed them this time). i made a typo and he made a comment like: oh i thought you were sending me kisses. :oops:

and he's always jealous when my gf is around, really funny to see actually. 'oh look she needs attention'

(mm, this is a lot cheaper then a shrink probably)
Author:  derf [ Tue Sep 23, 2003 1:58 pm ]
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maybe hes gay. Maybe hes just an asshole.
Author:  tyranus [ Tue Sep 23, 2003 2:03 pm ]
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lol, maybe he's just winding you up?

how good a friend is he? if you're ok, just ask him! its not that big a deal. if a bloke is gay though, its mostly pretty obvious
Author:  Satis [ Tue Sep 23, 2003 2:07 pm ]
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nah, you can't always tell. I've known plenty of gay/bi people where it was totally not obvious (and quite a few where it was). Bah, as long as he doesn't grab your ass I think you'll be fine. Maybe tell him to chill out if he's coming on a bit strong. :lol: hahahaha! I always thought your avatar looked kinda gay.
Author:  derf [ Tue Sep 23, 2003 2:08 pm ]
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I agree. Just ask the guy, "Excuse me, old matey, old friend, old pal, you arent a faggot by any chance?"
Author:  tyranus [ Tue Sep 23, 2003 2:13 pm ]
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Author:  J [ Tue Sep 23, 2003 2:15 pm ]
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Author:  J [ Tue Sep 23, 2003 2:21 pm ]
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Author:  derf [ Tue Sep 23, 2003 2:22 pm ]
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Author:  J [ Tue Sep 23, 2003 2:39 pm ]
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Thx derf, now i feel a lot safer. You also have a 'how do i clean this mess up' guide? my mom won't be happy with all these bloodstains and guts all over the place.

I'm still looking for a decent picture of me, only problem is whenever there is a picture taken and put on the i-net, i'm totally wasted, looking weird or both.

Really pfff not a single decent picture. got some pictures on another computer here, might post one of them tomorrow if i don't look too weird on those.



I think i look less gay here, although i'm awfully drunk, but not half as drunk as the guy sitting beside me. And don't mind the outfit, it's a student thing. NOT some strange cult or something.
Author:  derf [ Tue Sep 23, 2003 2:43 pm ]
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WHats that on your head?
Author:  J [ Tue Sep 23, 2003 2:47 pm ]
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Lol, i was still editing that post.

A student thing, 'een pots', a student hat. Dunno why people wear it, it's a tradition. It's actually hard not to lose it when you're drunk.

Also depends on the city you go to uni, other cities, other clubs, other traditions. But i had the time of my life there. 8)
Author:  derf [ Tue Sep 23, 2003 2:54 pm ]
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Looks like you were having fun.
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