Yeah, I don't see why they would blame the ref either. De Jong and Van Bommel should have gotten red (dark red in De Jong's case) way before that. Holland had the chances to beat Spain, but it just didn't convert them. They tried to stop Spain by playing very un-Dutch football, but it didn't work out for them in the end. They looked like Belgium in its best days, actually.
Either way, they have had one of the easiests parcours to the final in years, maybe modern history. Denmark, Cameroon and Japan in the group stage, then Slovakia, Brazil and uruguay.
Brazil clearly a top tier country, the rest...not so much.